Hate; How to not love it

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Have you ever come across people who dislike you? Or hate you? Or envy you? I have, a lot of times. I mean, it’s LIFE. Basically, everyone is a human and nothing we do make us less of a human.

Everyone have their own perspective and own opinions. One thing that excites you might seem boring to another, whatever makes you feel more alive, could be a threat of death to another and these ‘emotions’ lead people to either hate or love a particular thing.

Everyone like to live their life in their own ways someone loves to be sad some people don’t. People have the right to like and dislike, even we do it, don’t we?

Their opinions and reactions are also influenced by their surroundings and phase of time / generation.

And even if they were, it has nothing to do with me. Everything we own hate, criticism, love, envy, friendships, enemies, relationships, regrets, pleasures, wealth, memories, fears nothing’s gonna be with us eternally.

It’s not worth it, No one really remembers anything everyone has their stuff to work on, their issues, thier problems.

And if you’ve ever been so hard on yourself or if you’ve ever blame yourself for ‘not being perfect’ you should know that you’re not a robot. You’re a human, humans make mistakes, and mistakes never define anyone. We have our own stories, to love a particular song, to visit a ruin on a vacation, to spend weekends as if they never exist, or to get drunk off coffee in a pub. (wtf?).

One problem we, humans have is that we have tied ourselves in these stereotypical and mythical rules of the society. We’re taught certain things in the childhood and we grow up believing them but with time, it is needed to be updated / change. We’re going to leave. There’s no one to blame, no onee

No one, it’s a common human tendency. It’s a trouble when we end up being a trouble to others or our actions do them something they disapprove.

No one would remember an embarrassing moment of you, saying a bad word in front of people while attending a funeral. (And if somebody does, let it be!!) We give more importance to unnecessary stuff by paying attention to it more than it deserve.

If you think that certain habits of yours are weird or abnormal, there are other 20 million people thinking the same about themselves. We all are the same, thinking we are different.

There are 8 billion people around the world and you underestimate yourself as a ‘loser’ so easily, have some respect for yourself, man!

You failed? So what? You cried, you broke out, you spit coffee on your important test papers, you can’t sing, you can’t speak English, you mess up at basketball, SO WHAT? We should be aware of our actions though. We have right to try, and nothing in the world stop us from doing it. We should stop making issues about things that doesn’t really matter.

Idk what to write head… have a sweet day

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